A Small Story of a Boy and Girl - Visitor's Story

by Jayasree Patnaik
(Bangalore, India)

Marriages are made in heaven, rather I would say 'Rab banata hai Jodi'.

This is a story about a boy and a girl. It all began with a kind of marriage proposal, like the boy's parents told him about the girl and they approached the girl's parents. The boy started to search in social networking sites, so that he can find out more information about the girl.

He finally found her in one of the sites and gathered the required information about the girl from his network.

The girl also heard about the boy from her parents. Both the parents wanted the boy and the girl to meet once over the web, because the boy was not in India at that moment of time. So one fine day, they met on webcam and shared their thoughts... like a general discussion.

That day only, she got the call from the boy and he was very positive about her, but the girl was not sure what to do because she was not mentally prepared for the marriage. She somehow managed with the call and she asked that boy to give sometime to make a decision. He called her the next day as well, but she started ignoring him because she didn't want to give any kind of positive vibes as she was not ready. But the guy thought in a different manner, that is in a negative way and informed his parents about that. The girl also informed her parents that she can think about the matter once the guy is in India. So there closes the chapter for sometime.

But this is not the end of the story... Still lots of twists and turns are there.

I remember one story of a husband and wife which I read in a book before and abruptly about the situation. I thought of sharing this story with all of you....

Wife comes home from an exhausting day. She wants and needs to share her feelings with her husband about the day...

Wife says, "There is so much work to do; I don't have any time for myself."

Hubby says, "You should quit that job. You don't have to work so hard. Find something you like to do."

Wife says,"But I like my job. I can't quit the job. My manager expects me to change everything at a moment's notice."

Hubby says,"Don't listen to your manager. Just do what you can do."

Wife says,"I am!!! I can't believe, I completely forgot to wish my aunt. Today is her birthday!"

Hubby says,"Don't worry about it, she will understand...you were busy."

Wife says,"Do you know what she is going through? she would be expecting a call from me."

Hubby says,"You worry too much, that's why you are always so unhappy."

Wife angrily says,"I am not always unhappy. Can't you just listen to me?"

Hubby says."I am listening to your stupid things only."

After this conversation, wife was more frustrated than when she arrived home seeking intimacy and companionship. Hubby was also frustrated and had no idea what went wrong.

Hubby was so upset that he did hurt his sweetheart, his darling who takes care of him each and every step of his life. He himself felt bad and realised that he was wrong and arrogant. He tried changing himself and see the change in conversation below when wife comes home tired and exhausted the other day.

Wife says, "There is so much work to do; I don't have any time for myself."

Hubby takes a deep breath and says, "Huhhhhh..sounds like you had a hard day. You should take rest now."

Wife says,"My manager expect me to change everything at a moment's notice. I don't know what to do Dear."

Hubby says,"Hmmmmmmm."

Wife says,"I can't believe, I completely forgot to wish my aunt. Today is her birthday!"

Hubby says with wrinkled brow,"Oh...No."

Wife says,"She would be expecting a call from me. I feel so bad..."

Hubby says,"You are such a loving person Darling. Come here, let me give you a hug."

Hubby gives wife a hug and she relaxes in his arms with a big sigh of relief. She then says, "I love you. You make me really happy. Thanks for understanding me and I feel much better now.

Not only wife but also hubby felt better. He was amazed at how much happier his wife was when he finally understood her.

This story always motivates... Learning how to strengthen a relationship and trying to love and care as much as you can....

Now let's start the old Girl & Boy story again.

Again after 1 month or so the boy started to send a friend request in one of the social networking sites. But he failed somehow because the girl knowingly was rejecting his requests. But in the meantime she also gathered some information about the guy as she desired to know more about him. And one fine day, she accepted the friend request... Here you go, the boy was on cloud nine!

Then that started a series emails and the boy used to wait for the girl to come online though it was night for him (as he was in US). One day due to some internet problem, the boy wasn't able to chat with the girl, and he called her finally. Then that started a series of calls... never ended... continued.

They became closer and closer, and decided to get marry. The same thing they informed their parents, they were very happy because they've always wanted it to happen.

So marriages are made in heaven...

They got married and are now a very happy couple. They love each other a lot...

Hmmm....so how's the story? Wanna know about the boy and girl?

Well it's my own story. Thank you!

Sarojayasree